The Perfect Way to Make Friends, and The Shift to “Sober-ish”

By Wim Langedijk for HURS

 

The Perfect Way to Make Friends, and The Shift to “Sober-ish”


HUR Reads is our definitive shortlist of the most prominent articles from around the web.

 

By HURS Team

 
 

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Why Is Everyone ‘Sober-ish’ All of a Sudden?

The era of “sober-ish” living has arrived, reshaping our social rituals with a new blend of mindfulness and moderation. No longer tied to the idea of endless martinis or overflowing wine glasses, many are embracing a softer stance on alcohol—drinking sparingly, strategically, or not at all. It’s not about abstinence but about balance: a delicate negotiation between pleasure and health. It’s sobriety with deeper conversations and more balance, trading chaos for control without losing a touch of sparkle.

THE WALL STREET JOURNAL

 

 

Francesca D’Uva’s off-broadway debut, “This Is My Favorite Song”, showcases her blend of music, comedy, and storytelling. The show navigates personal loss, while balancing her niche humor with genuine sincerity. A fixture in New York’s comedy scene, D’Uva’s musical roots and knack for parody create vivid, relatable moments. Her reflective performance probes the role of comedy in times of global and personal grief.

THE NEW YORK TIMES

 

 

Group fitness is more than just physical health, it’s a way to be social and develop new friendships through shared experience, proximity and ritual. Whether it's mastering in a yoga class or a sweaty spin studio, classes are a great way to build connection through community, and share mutual goals. Beyond the gym, these relationships often develop into deeper friendships, proving that wellness isn’t just physical—it's social too. Call it the workout for your heart and your circle.

THE ATLANTIC

 

 

Colombian-born artist María Berrío's "The End of Ritual" at Victoria Miro blends collage and painting, exploring themes of masks, migration, and group dynamics in chaotic, ritualistic scenes. Her works juxtapose delicacy with aggression, reflecting the overstimulation of modern life. Influenced by folklore, dance, and personal narratives, Berrío's pieces examine identity and displacement, with women and children central to her emotive, layered compositions. Her use of Japanese washi paper enriches the works' tactile and visual depth.

ARTNET

 

 

Alice Lam’s floral studio, Basa, epitomizes the intersection of wild creativity and refined elegance. Rooted in Japanese ikebana principles, Lam’s designs are intentional yet effortlessly organic, blending textures and contrasts. Her work has been featured at events for Phoebe Philo, Kim Kardashian, and Troye Sivan, while she remains committed to boutique-scale artistry. Steering clear from social media’s pressures, Lam’s ethos is simple: embrace joy, nature, and personal growth.

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